Sharing Photos Safely
These answers are crafted from the ConnectSafely.org
For more information and advice, please visit www.connectsafely.org.
What to do if Someone asks you for a Sexual Image or Nude on HerHelp:
Sharing nude or sexual photos/videos is a violation of HerHelp’s Community Guidelines. The simplest response you can give someone is, "No, it's not allowed on HerHelp."Beyond HerHelp, it's crucial to consider the impact of losing control over nude or sexual photos or videos of yourself. This can happen the moment someone shares a photo or video. People sometimes make mistakes, play jokes, or act out of anger and share things they shouldn't.
If you're under 18, it's especially important to know that sharing nude or sexually explicit images of minors, whether online, via mobile phones, by mail, or any other method, is illegal in most countries and can have serious legal and life-changing consequences for both the creator of the images and anyone who requests them.
The safest approach is never to share nude photos/videos or anything else you wouldn't want others to see, even if you trust the person asking for them.If someone you care about asks you to share a nude photo/video or to leave HerHelp for a private chat, and you feel uncomfortable, tell them. If they truly care about you, they will understand.If anyone tries to threaten or pressure you into sharing photos/videos, refuse. If it continues, inform someone you trust or contact the police. You may also want to report the person on HerHelp.
How to Handle Threats to Share Private Images or Personal Info:
If someone is threatening to share private content and is demanding money or other things from you, you have several options:
Contact Local Law Enforcement: Report the threat to your local authorities.
Report the Person to Us: Let us know about the situation so we can take appropriate action.
If You're Under 18:
If you’re under 18, we recommend speaking with a parent or another trusted adult to help you decide what to do. We offer safety and security tips for parents. Here are additional resources to consider:
Contact a Crisis Hotline or Chat Service: These services are available across the US and many other countries, allowing you to stay anonymous while you decide your next steps. Crisis lines can often refer you to a victim advocate or legal adviser. In the US, you can find one by postal code at www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/our-network/ or visit www.crisischat.org.
Speak with a Victim Advocate or Social Worker: In the US, victim advocates are available in county offices, police stations, domestic violence prevention centers, rape crisis centers, sheriff's offices, and state attorney general offices. They can help gather evidence, ensure your safety, and obtain a civil protection or anti-stalking order. For support in the US, call the National Organization for Victim Assistance at 1-800-TRY-NOVA (1-800-879-6682) or visit www.trynova.org.
Contact a Legal Aid Society or Organization: Seek free legal advice from local organizations.
Consult a Lawyer or Counselor: Get professional advice tailored to your situation.
Talk to a School Counselor or Administrator: They can offer support and guidance.
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